|
Shhh...
I dont believe in keeping secrets. Well, I'm not talking about the kind of secrets like "OMG I heart him cause he's just so hot... but dun tell NO one!" I'm talking about the gossipy secrets, the "I really don't like her because...." secrets. If they're just plain stupid, then I will probably not even fully listen to them, or just shrug as my response. But if they are true, legitimate critiques of someone, then I not only listen, but make a comment to the person who is getting the critiquing. Why? Not because I'm a busy-body or trying to mess up friendships, rather I'm trying to heal them. There are so many just plain mis-understandings or untruths. Someone reads someone's body language wrong, and then takes it as a personal offense when nothing really happened. It's acually fairly helpful. But you gotta know what secrets to tell ans which ones to keep. Some might not be misunderstandings, and that's pretty embarrasing.
|
Community Member
Kinda like deciding which certain people are going to become pregnant first?
stare
surprised