Okey so i met this boy in june of 2010, on Nexopia (i know i know) but you know what? he wasnt that bad! we started going steady for a couple months until i had to move, which sucked because i didnt see him much. or so i thought sad the last day i ever saw him was so sad. we cried alot and held eachother until he drove me home.
i would give anything to go back then and change things, cause it got so much harder without him when i moved. eventually we talked less and less, and then my insecurities got the best of me and i broke up with him through facebook ... sweatdrop
weve talked a lil bit here and there but never had a full conversation. he told me he missed me but then started dating a girl a week later sad that was a month ago and i havent talked to him yet.
so i dont know what to do, any advice would be great, thanx for reading.
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I've talked to many many many girls on this subject, mostly because I have always taken the time to "talk" to them about what's going on and the things that are important. I may not have relationship experience but I know that whenever some guy leaves them for another they want to just kill them selves or some stupid s**t. And no i'm not just talking about spoiled b***h teenage girls I also mean grown up 20 yo women lol.
If you really like the guy then the only thing I would do is to just ask him every once and a while how his relationship is going. If things start to go wrong then you'll have your chance and have high hopes. But if he just keeps on saying everything is fine between them then you should just forget about having a relationship with him again. Plus you broke up with him sooo I don't know if he's going to want you back or not. Some guys are really stubborn I hope this guy isn't. Just keep your hopes high for now because you're a really cool chick so there's a chance he'll come around.
And as far as wanting to talk to him, just do it. Just send him a message asking him how he is doing, and how his life has been and don't bring up the past.