09 February 2010 Saint Valentine's Day!
Love, love, love... you surely have experienced that terrible condition when you find yourself sighing for a boy who doesn't even notice you...First of all I'll give you advice: in gaining love, charisma has a very important role. Observe your own behaviour! Be aware of your own nervousness. Try to feel it as a wall between yourself and the person you wish to attract.Worry will always work against you. Say to yourself that you are going to enjoy yourself, use humour! Sometimes you really like someone but you say nothing because you fear that if you tell him, you would be rejected…be confident and try this spell! Good luck!
You will need:
A mirror, most any kind.
2 candles of any colour; pink is a good choice, as it brings friendship and romance
yourself!
In a comfortable place put a candle on each side of the mirror. Light the candles ... turn down, or off, any artificial light. Now, sit down in front of the mirror, gaze at your reflection. Relax. Notice all your good qualities and focus on them. Then say aloud how wonderful you are! Smile at yourself! Tell yourself how wonderful you are ... state all the positive aspects of your personality, (your humour, your willingness to help others, etc)name all the beautiful traits, that make you special…and then say these words:
I am beautiful on the outside
I am wonderful within
I am special unto myself,
So let the love come in!
Negative thoughts, they vanish
I now toss them out
Negative feelings, be banished,
To let my love shine out!
Repeat this at least 5 times.And do it at least once a day -- you may reuse the candles, but do not blow them out! (It is an insult, to the air and fire elements). Use a snuffer or wet your fingers, and pinch them out. As you get more used to doing this spell, you may repeat these words, or any words that you chose (spells are great, when made personal ... maybe, in time, and with practice, you will want to change them!) I like to do this spell before I go out anywhere! Much like putting on makeup in the morning! Good luck !
