I Lost A Friend Today For A Very Stupid Reason...
Well my best guy friend's girlfriend, aka the jealous b***h, has made damn sure that I'm not in his life anymore. She blocked me from HIS facebook profile like a month ago and just last night she removed me from HIS facebook friends list, again! Gawd I really hate her, she sits there and tries to control his life and interferes into his battles and doesn't trust him at all, so it seems, and she's so selfish that she'd prefer that he be hurting rather than being in pain herself. She totally put me and him in a lot of pain and into a majorly awkward situation. I'm not the kind of person to go after a guy who's taken, hell we were just friends. Nothing more. I mean I like him but I dont like like him and he loves her so much that he's never hurt her. Yeah he like likes me but that's just him being human. You can't help having feelings for other people even if your in a relationship with someone you love, you can't stop those feelings. but you can stop yourself from acting on those feelings and he has and always will! he would never cheat on her! NEVER! I just wish shed figure that out, allow him to control his own life, and actually trust him. I mean she's going to destroy their relationship with the way she's acting. She really will. It's his life and he can choose his own friends, whether they be male or female. He's completely trustworthy. he's one of the very few good guys out. He deserves to be trusted.... Damn this really hurts. I love him, he's one of my best friends. I don't like being shoved out of his life like that. I had a dream about my ex last night. It was kind of nice, took my attention away from the situation with my guy friend... for a little while at least. Life sucks..... How do you deal with your best guy friend's jealous girlfriend? Do you just let him go? Do you fight to stay his friend by writing a strongly worded letter (with no curse words or name calling)? What am I supposed to do?
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