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The Life and Mind of DamnBlackHeart
This is to help me stay actively writing. So expect to see rants, tips on writing, thoughts on subjects, me complaining of boredom, reviews, anime, movies, video games, conventions, tv shows and whatever life throws at me.
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Life is like Ying and Yang because there is always something to balance things out. It comes be from life to death, good to evil, sad to happiness, and so on. I could go on and on about all the balances in life but what I want to focus on is the darkside of the zodiacs signs. It seems that not only are there certain good traits, there are also bad ones. But many don't look for the "darkside" of them.
I was curious and looked up my sign, the virgo and this is what I got...
"Many Virgos deal with the problem of perfectionism, of control, of never being happy with oneself. This is their dark side. Confronting it can be essential.
Perfectionism can be an extremely difficult flaw to combat. It can cause delays, prevent accomplishments, and cause those who suffer from it to fail to appreciate the greatness of their triumphs. This can represent the dark side of a Virgo's personality, but these characteristics are not limited to just Virgo. Individuals of all signs who have problems with perfectionism could make good use of this advice.
Virgo Personality
A perfectionism-based Virgo personality typically has many aspects. One is the "control freak" aspect, which can cause Virgos to only feel comfortable when they are in charge of everything. Another is a "never good enough" aspect, in which nothing ever measures up to the Virgo's own impossibly high standards. Behind the control aspect is a desire to prevent pain. Behind the "never good enough" aspect lies painful insecurity, similar to that experienced by many Libras.
The Virgo Man
The Virgo man can be fastidious, disciplined, and organized. He loves planning events, and frequently finds himself in situations involving managing or leading others. Yet, at the same time, he can be an impersonal leader. He leads not for the roar of the crowd, but instead, for the security in knowing he is in control, which can make the Virgo man always nervous.
The Virgo Woman
The Virgo woman can be controlling and even sometimes manipulative. Many enjoy gossip. Others enjoy repeated cleaning, and can be "neat freaks." Others engage in extreme dieting. The common thread is that many are unhappy with themselves and so they constantly have to push themselves to be perfect. This perfection is always out of reach, so the Virgo woman can find herself in a vicious cycle of unhappiness.
Virgo Love
When a Virgo is in love, he or she can be more nervous than happy. Many do not enjoy the unpredictability of a new relationship and dislike allowing others to start planning how their lives are going to go. They may only feel comfortable if they pick the restaurant or the movie. This could potentially put them at odds with those who have stubbornness issues, like some Tauruses."
If you're curious about your darkside zodiac you can read more and find out about it here: http://astrology.suite101.com/article.cfm/dark_side_virgo_astrology#ixzz0QB5F4rUS
Or you can google "Darkside Zodiac" and look up the book in amazon and check out the preview. It's a fun and interesting book that tell it like it is about each sign and the aspects of them.
Anway, from reading that I can see how some things makes sense in my personality but I don't agree completely in some parts of this. I'm not much on perfectism but I do get like that at times. Such as if you get me started on cleaning. I usually don't stop until everything is clean and in order. Or when I get excited with a drawing I'm doing, I go all out on making it the best.
 DamnBlackHeart · Tue Sep 22, 2009 @ 03:14pm · 0 Comments |
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