It may not seen like they want you all the time but it's because they do, and they want to keep in check that you want them too so they will test you occasionally. When these times happen, do your best to keep yourselves together, if they really want the breakup because they don't feel as loved as before then show them by not giving up and doing whatever it takes to keep the relationship together. If that fails and a breakup really does happen then as fast as you can pretend nothing ever happened I know this is hard but trust this method, if you can ask a friend of the opposite gender to pretend to be your new lover, your old lover will being to wonder whether you really loved them or not and begin to feel hurt and painful, when that happens seize that chance to get back with them, it shows that they are not entirely over you and still wants a chance to stay together.
~You may be tested every now and then just bear with it and do your best to satisfy what your partner expects from you.
Brian Asakura Lee/Tamiko
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Love lessons for everyone that is with someone or may want to get with someone