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so often, they exasperate me. make me almost full les instead of bi.......they are so rarely what women id say need. few are observant, listeners, truely caring about everything. few think to what a women wants or needs. meh. i say this as my perspective from whom ive met, who i have lived with for these past 15 and nearly a half years. also from what i've seen and read.
ive noticed that a good deal of men are experienced enough to emulate whatever he thinks or knows a women needs or wants to pull her in, but it is only to use her. to draw into him, to like him, to love him, to need him. then he do as he pleasescuz she cant leave him. she no longer knows what to do without him, how to get or even know what she wants without him.
there are men who keep find women they know are vunerable, and use a similar method to wrap them up in the fantasy quickly. they close a trap around their minds so the women dont understand the men's behaviour, let alone relize it is wrong, or that it is hurtung them. these men are abusive after they have trapped the women. doesnt matter how. physically, sexually, mentally, or through abusing other people or creatures, or even items. these men make it so that a women is vunerable her whole life, that that mindset is the only way to live. they scar these women.
but when you find one of those rare men that rarely are truly good. well i cant say really how it is, as i've enver met, seen, read, or dealt with such a man. but i can safely assume that a women who has, would use words like wonderful, magical, heavenly, other mushy crap like that.
its the hope of meeting one of those impossible men that keep me from giving up on men totally. people could of course say similar things of women. and itd be true. a lot of women are as awful as men. but hey, its proven that women are statisticly kinder than men no matter how bad they are. example being murders. men will maim, cut, burn, pick apart, and other crap.....but women? women almost always pick cleaner, faster ways. it is a hypothosis that women think of the people who have to come through after, and the work they'll cause those people even if it is unconciously. actually, another hypothosis of female murders, is that the reason they are less common then men, is because they are smarter, and cleaner about it so they arent caught andf their victims look like accidents or sucide, or someone else completely if they so wish.
ugh. humans are exasperating in general........
 BSPBleach · Sat May 28, 2011 @ 01:22am · 0 Comments |
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